Monday, January 10, 2011

OMG it is 2011!!!

Wow...it has been a LONG time since I went to the library and posted on this blog.
Well, a lot has happened...I went to Folegandros with Melly, Albhy and Jacob this summer, also Paris and London...what an adventure! Folegandros was amazing and lived up to all the hype I have heard over the years...THEN I went to Philadelphia on the way home to meet my new GRANDBABY!!! Andrew and Melissa had their first child, Maya, at home on July 13 and I got there about 9 days later...we got the news of the birth on Folegandros...I spent a week with Melissa's family, Bill and Suzette, and visited the baby and Andrew and Melissa every day...wonderful.
(I am racing to tell stuff because I only have 10 minutes left on the computer)
THEN, this fall, I heard from Shirley Finneran, my old friend and she wanted to know if she could give my number to Pete Healy, a man I dated when I was 18-21, about.
Anyway, He called, we had a visit, and the old sparks were still there and we have been seeing each other for the last 2+ months. He said he always loved me, and I know I always loved him and we are really into each other. Only the future will tell what will happen, but I feel happier than I have for years. He makes me laugh and feel like a girl again and I just love to be with him and talk, etc...also he still turns me on...who knew? He is now 79, and a widower and I am 75...
He lives an hour away in Huntington Beach and he has a boat. God has a sense of humor because I have such terrible motion sickness/vertigo...but I will figure it out. Life is really wonderful and you never know when a surprise will come to you...this is a wonderful surprise and I am enjoying it thoroughly...just have to stop the old brain from clicking and picking and enjoy the ride.
In addition to a sense of humor, God is thoughtful. My house was on the market so my home had no little messes of Artstuff and books AND I just got diagnosed with Diabetes, so I have lost weight and was wearing tight jeans the first day he came over...we have to be grateful for these little gifts.
speaking of the diabetes, I have lost even more weight...now in a size 12 that is too big...so a diabetic diet is the secret to weight loss...I am glad I did not know in Folegandros, because I lived on ice cream and Pasta on the island, and can no longer eat either...don't care...living on love is so much nicer.
Had a lovely phone call from Alison, my stepdaughter, and was so thrilled to hear from her. She is a lovely woman and called me from Switzerland, where she lives.
This is a LOT of information to shove into this little blog...next time I am at the library I will allow more time...but this time the hour was eaten up with finding and printing letters from Andrew so I could make sense of them by having them on actual paper to look at and make notes on...I just LOVE my LIFE!!! Right now is the best time EVER!!!
YAY!!!

1 comment:

Allison said...

Hello step-mother! :)

Your happiness is contagious, and I hope that I'm as perky in my 70s! You go girl! Turns you on, indeed! I'm glad you have someone to brighten your life... all I can say from down here at the age of 40 is seize the day! Take four or five travel meds and a handful of ginger pills and go out on that boat to snuggle in the sunset. sigh. Wish I could join you for coffee and hear your tale in person.

I've been thinking of you quite a bit. Here's a hug for you on this day. And next time you fly over Paris... PLEASE come visit me, no matter how many of your loved-ones are tagging along. We'll find the room.